The old new post

So well here we are again….things were going really well with Chad and then all of a sudden nothing…Let’s catch you up…

Chad and I have been together like peas and carrots…and things were going really well, we were going out on the weekends I’ve met some of his friends, he’s met some of mine…then he told me he loved me…

All of a sudden things got weird…he wasn’t sitting with me in class, he was being evasive, suddenly couldn’t go out…and then it was weird dudes I hadn’t talked to in forever had started coming out of the woodwork…first there was Ira saying he was coming to my birthday and that he wanted to hang out…then Cisco and Dan said they were coming to my birthday party like after being MIA for months…then the ever confusing Doug shows up in the parking lot at school and wants to ride to Boston with me…then there was Tyler, Chad’s friend taking Chad’s seat in class and chatting it up with me and joking and being close and weird…it was very out of character. And this coupled with the Chad acting weird like I didn’t know what to do…but sit there and witness it all.

So we left with him being mopey and telling me he had no Valentine…so flash forward to this weekend…I’m celebrating Valentines with my fav girls: Meg, Mel and Aryn…so we talk it over and think I should ask Chad to be my valentine…so it goes down like this (via text):

Me: Will you be my valentine?

Chad: Ur outta town

Me: Well the responsibilities are limited, considering I’m 500 miles away but you can always buy me a present when I get back hahah

Chad: Not to mention I was number 4 on ur list. What am I last resort?

Me: You’re totally not the last resort! Facebook picked my valentines not me

Chad: Well I don’t believe it

Me: Well it’s true…try the app…besides who else would I ask?



So I don’t get it…who gets that upset over a will you be my valentine text message? Like seriously!? And who cares if you’re number four on a facebook app? Like I don’t get it…and he hasn’t responded to me all day..or really since about 12:30 last night…I don’t get it…I really really don’t get it…like did he want to be my Valentine ..if he did why didn’t he ask? Why’d he like flip out on me instead about being a last resort? And why did he think he was my last resort? Like I don’t get it….I’m just really really confused…I have no idea what to do…This is one time I’m really at a loss…